Recognising the signs of domestic abuse
All relationships are different. There isn’t such a thing as a ‘normal’ relationship, but there are healthy relationships and unhealthy relationships. If you feel unsafe or recognise any of the negative signs below, take action.
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Signs of a healthy relationship
- They always treat me with respect, no matter where we are or who we’re with.
- They’re proud of me when I achieve something.
- They encourage me to keep trying with things I find hard.
- They’re comfortable with me spending time away from them, with family and other friends.
- They try to do some of the things I like, such as sports, cinema and music.
- They respect me when I say no or disagree.
- They can talk about their feelings with me.
- They don’t cheat on me, and trust me not to cheat on them.
- They listen to me when we disagree and try to see my point of view.
- They give me compliments and say positive things about me to others.
- They have friends and interests of their own.
- They don’t rush our relationship; we can take it slow.
- They ask my opinion when deciding important things that affect us both.